My name is krisitna (known to family as tina) I'm looking for my Father?

I'm looking for my Father, lost since I was a child. I was born dec 1970, my brother Tim born in sept. 1968. Father's name is Thomas Glenn Coley married my Mother Janice Glascock in Indianapolis Indiana. Father was born in North Carolina, However some of his family members are in Alabama. I have never met them and know none of their names. Father is 69 or 70 years old currently. He was last seen living in Forestdale Alabama or close to Birmingham (1985) with a woman called "cookie" but I believe he then moved to Independence or Kansas city Missouri and then possibly Owensboro Kentucky.